You Can’t Win Until You ___ (Fill In the Blank)

Nowadays, dating is more competitive than it’s ever been — download this free report to learn 6 proven skills to stand apart & succeed in the modern dating world. This is going to be very simple. Not going to be long. It’s going to be something you’ll be able to read every single day. This … Read more

Read This to Start Building Habits & Reach Your Goals This Year

I dare you to tell me I can’t do something. I love — seriously LOVE — when the odds are stacked against me. I don’t know where I got the personality trait, because my upbringing certainly wouldn’t have been an one that made me so perseverant. My father was coddled by his mom and his … Read more

The Christian Connection guide to writing great messages

Over the 20 years that we’ve been helping single Christians meet, we’ve seen what can help make meaningful connections. Whether you’re just starting out with online dating or wanting to refresh your dating efforts, here’s what we’ve learned about messaging that lead to dates, relationships and lasting connections. Be brave Taking that first step in … Read more

10 Helpful Things To Remember When You’re Healing Post Breakup

I know how it feels to be crying my eyes out, yet again, over someone that I’ve tried to get over but still loved. Breakups are not only hard, the loss of a relationship can often be just as painful as actually losing a loved one. It makes sense – this person that you loved … Read more

3 Times I Realized Being a Pickup Artist Was Really Weird

Confession: I used to be a professional pickup artist. Yes, I read women’s palms and rehearsed ridiculous lines that other men claimed were the secret to getting laid. I even used a “cool” pseudonym, Niko. But, that was a lifetime ago. I’ve spent the past twelve years teaching men to honestly know themselves and communicate … Read more

3 Big Mindsets to Winning the Long Game in Dating

There was a time when I loved digesting every little thing about dating. It was all so addictive. When you first discover you CAN actively get better with women and grow your confidence, it feels like uncovering ancient texts to find the holy grail. You become obsessed thinking that if you just find the right … Read more

7 HARSH Truths You MUST Accept to Succeed in Dating

Have you ever wondered why most people don’t reach the success they want? Whether it be in dating, career, finances, etc. …They end up settling, and rationalizing why it’s okay. Very few people truly hit their stride, achieve, and maintain high levels of success in dating and other areas. So, what sets these people apart? … Read more

Lonely & Single? Beating the Nobody’s Girl Blues!

Feeling lonely?  So many successful single women are feeling that way during these very stressful and isolating times!  Being single is a real challenge right now, for sure. And it often leads to having what I call the Nobody’s Girl blues. I know all about it, because, as a result of my own lonely childhood, … Read more

Overcoming Loneliness & The Nobody’s Girl Experience

Loneliness is in a pandemic of its own right now. Perhaps you are feeling it even more than other women, if you had a less-than-great childhood in which you were not exactly welcomed, appreciated and nurtured in a consistent way.  Your problematic upbringing then leads to you to experience yourself as a Nobody’s Girl.  And … Read more

How to Overcome Loneliness Once and For All

Can we really learn how to overcome loneliness once and for all? Each month 135,000 people search the term ‘loneliness’ on Google.  Many of them are looking for how connect and overcome their isolation.  Loneliness is even harder to deal with if you have experienced what I call a Nobody’s Girl upbringing.  There may be … Read more